Valentines day tips for a stronger relationship

Valentine's day is often depicted as the day to celebrate love. With romantic dinners, flowers and grand gestures. But does it have to be like that? Is that romantic? Of course it is, but we think that there is an even more romantic way of celebrating: getting to know each other for real, talking about money.

Talking about money, shared finances and financial goals, is a great way of strengthening your relationship. However, getting started can sometimes be tricky. That's why we've put together some conversation starters  

1. Set financial goals together: Dream for a while. What would you do if you had all the money in the world, how important is comfort, luxury and charity? Share your goals and dreams.

2. Discuss budgeting and priorities: Where should you spend your disposable money? Talk about what everyday items you could and could not be without. How much should you put in each category and how much would you want in an emergency fund?

3. Communicate openly and honestly. Discussing money can be uncomfortable, but open communication is key to avoiding misunderstandings and conflicts. Make sure to talk about any financial concerns you have and be willing to listen to your partner's perspective.

4. Shared finances: It's important to divide expenses in a way that feels fair to both of you. This may involve splitting expenses 50/50, or coming up with a different arrangement that works for both of you.

5. Be supportive of each other. Money can be a source of stress, so it's important to be supportive of each other and understand that everyone has their own financial journey.

Shared finances may not be seen as the most romantic aspect of a relationship, but by working together and being open and honest, you can strengthen your bond and build a secure financial future together. Happy Valentine's Day!